Anyone who is close to me knows I’m completely smitten with the law of attraction. I love love love listening and watching Esther Hicks find inspiration from Abraham “a group consciousness from the non-physical dimension”, I love how she doesn’t refer to herself as channelling their presence but just being inspired by the thoughts they impress on her, if it’s a new concept to you, there’s a good chance you will be in disbelief and that’s ok, each to their own. But to me it just makes so much sense, and when you think back on life and fish through your mind and all the old info from past experiences that lie there, you can’t help but see how one thing led to another, and underlying it all was probably an intention or thought that was sitting in your mind steering you along the way without you even knowing!
What do I mean?
Well take for instance a thought you had, but not just some random thought, something you were quite passionate about, or something you were really longing for like a much loved day dream, fantasy, excitedly thinking about something constantly, something that made you feel good to think about, like it really moved you within, and then something leads to something and bang it actually comes to life!! THAT right there is the law of attraction.
Of course it can also come to life in not so favourable ways, you know the sayings “murphy’s law’ or “I knew that would happen” or “the universe is testing me” that we love to use to justify that shit that takes place, you also knew you were worrying about something, maybe quietly to yourself so you didn’t look negative or look like a party pooper or old worry wort, but low and behold that shitty circumstance comes to fruition, that my friend is also the law of attraction!!
You see you’re worrying truly doesn’t do anything positive to help you, in fact it makes the situation worse. The Universe doesn’t understand or see your vibration of something “NOT” happening, or your resistance, all the universe sees and feels is your vibration of “the said subject”. So if you are resistant to something, the universe is only in understanding of the “said subject” or circumstance, not the “not happening” of it. It’s like when you tell a little kid to “not do something” what’s the next thing they do? Exactly what you told them NOT to do, they don’t hear NOT or NO , they hear whatever the action was. So if you can think along those lines with your thoughts and feelings, you will have a greater understanding of WHY things are and aren’t happening in your life.
So how can we correct this worrying state we’ve grown up in? It is actually as simple as changing our thoughts, hahaha I laugh when I say “simple” because we all know that’s not a simple task for the majority of us. Saying and doing are two completely different things aren’t they, I’ve been on this road for SEVERAL years now. I grew up in a beautiful loving family, my parents have hearts of gold and would and still do help anyone they can, but on the other side of that scale is the massive weight of worry. Yes there is caring, compassion, empathy, concern, but the heavier of all these is WORRY. So the problem with this is you never truly get to step into that smooth lane of life. It’s like being stuck in peak hour traffic, You’ll get a go for a bit and you’ll be all happy and cheering on the inside (sometimes you’re excited actions may be noticeable to the driver in the lane beside you 😉 ) then next second a red light hits and bam instantly you’ve got the shits because you only just made it 20 metres from your last stopped position. The same goes for life when you worry about stuff, it’s like you are actually throwing out a big red light and all the shitty worries you are carrying manifest in your life and your car (YOU) comes to a cranky arse halt and then you blert out “I knew that would happen”!! Well hell yeh of course you knew because you manifested it!! (But you probably don’t think you were the creator of it, it was just life being an arsehole to you and you’re a nice person so the Universe/God whoever you’re blaming is cruel and unloving. Nope they’re just responding to YOUR vibration (your thoughts and feelings). I can openly say all of this for the simple fact that I had lived it my entire life without knowing or understanding I was doing it.
It’s quite a kicker when the penny drops and it all makes sense, you will think back over your life and realise that you actually have created all that you are and aren’t, have and don’t have, it was all YOUR doing, and none of it can truly be blamed on another, only your reaction to the situation. And look I truly understand and am by no means justifying freaking nasty unfair, unjust, horrific things that take place, I do understand we’re all here together and we ALL have free will and unfortunately some will choose things that are not what we consider, good, legal or loving, and for those things it’s hard not to have ones heart break. But if you’re feeling ready and interested, join me and lets step out of that lower vibe happenings and take the first steps in raising our vibrations and see what treasures life presents to us.
How do I do that?
You predominant thought HAS to be happiness! It is actually that simple to change your vibration. We just have a habit of getting bogged down in the everyday blah blah, pushing our happiness aside and we don’t realise in those instances we steer our canoe up against the rivers current and make life so hard for ourselves. It is something you may have to try hard to do at the start, because the simple fact is people don’t actually want you to be happy ( or happier than them 😉 ) . Think about it , you’re on top of the world, life is going fucking brilliantly and you run into someone and they say in their morbib life sucks tone “hi, how are you?” Do you say “I’m fucking FANTASTIC, life has never been better!!!” or do you say “fine or good thanks” or even worse “not bad” (I won’t even get into that answer here and now) well why do we do this, why drop our vibe because someone else wants to stay on the shitty, life’s too hard and reality sucks vibration?
We are OUR own creators, we create OUR own reality!!
So why mess it up on yourself and lower your vibe to keep someone else happy, you are in that instance putting them above yourself!
(I should be writing this part in shouty CAPITALS!!!)
Do you think they’re better and more deserving than you?
Do you think you deserve less?
Well guess what YOU don’t. You are the MOST important person in YOUR life!! People will only treat you as YOU show them how to treat YOU!!
MY entire life I put the world before me, and guess what, I always come off second best!! It got me NO WHERE!! All I did was keep the peace at the expense of my own happiness and health. I think this is so common for our generation and those before us, the majority of us were brought up to use our manners, show respect, be nice, do as we were told. The problem with this a lot of the time we were completely going against our own natural happy vibration, shutting it down to LOW, which was of absolutely no help to us at all. Why do you think so many people get to mid life and get labelled as having a “crisis” it’s not a fucking crisis, they’re just sick of putting themselves last and are finally kind of working out they deserve more!
So here’s some homework for you….
Let go of any shitty lower vibration thoughts you are holding onto. You know the crap that you just keep replaying in your mind, the things you could of done different, the regrets, all that junky stuff. Because guess what? It’s not helping you at all!! It is keeping you stuck in a lower vibe where yukky stuff happens. Not a single one of us can change the past, it’s done, it is what it is, we only truly have the now, so lets go for a happy one. So if you need to see some sort of therapist to get rid of stuff, my advice is, do it ( I did 😉 ) .
Tell yourself how fucking important you really are! Reality is, you truly are!
Tell yourself how much you love and appreciate yourself! If you don’t set the ground rules and demonstrate how you should be treated (starting with how you treat you) then NO ONE else will know how to treat you!
If someone else rocks, tell them how much they rock or how much you appreciate them! When we lift others up, we lift ourselves up, and appreciation is like magic mojo juice for manifesting good shit!!
Please please please start putting yourself first! “It’s OK to say NO” You truly are worthy, you are an incredible soul and you are so deeply loved, this is your time to feel that.
Thank you for letting me share this with you, I feel so strongly about this as I have seen not only my life miraculously change, but loved ones around me who have also put these principles to work in their lives, it brings me such intense joy to witness. And it really its like a drug once you start noticing how good life can truly be.
Until next time much love and blessing beautiful souls.